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Invisible Walls
7/7/2025 11:21:05 PM
Vijay Garg

In rural society, there are often incidents seen, in which, from childhood to youth, along with grown-ups become unborn about a very minor thing in the middle of the brothers. When the small thing becomes big, it is not known. In such a situation, the way the conversation stops between the two, when the time changes from day to day, months to year, does not make sense. It is natural, in such a situation, the conversation also stops between the two families and there is no social interaction among themselves. However, both keep taking each other’s news through the second-third person and in the way. A brother’s family is sad to hear about the misery of the other brother’s family and is happy to hear about happiness Despite this, the dissolution between the two family remains closed till far conversation. It is not that both will not want compromise, but the difficulty remains who starts the conversation first. The story, which began with a small talk, becomes the case of Ahem and falls heavily on love. Two friends, two relatives, family members often get to see such a case. The complaint remains that he did not call me earlier. He does not call me then why should I? This series of small shikeway-complaints continues to go on. The phone is in hand and the friend just has to put it. Then why do we stop ourselves from pressing the button? It is not that this emotion will continue to grow in the mind of the same person. All humans are only. These are feelings that come in everyone. Just his shower remains. Such incidents burn layer-by-layer in the mind of a person in a negative way and at last they take shape of a larger appearance than a mountain. It does not look anywhere, but it is definitely standing in the mind and sometimes gives rise to all evils including Khunnas, Ranjish, vengeance. At times, even while love within the mind, people behave desperately because their ego dominates their real sense. They are not able to reveal the feeling, of settled or hidden love within them. In such a situation, the question arises, why does it last? Why do people not find the invisible wall of the ego settled in the mind ? Imprisonment their feeling within the mind will definitely result in suffocation. Then why do people not want to get rid of it? Why do people keep fighting with themselves? Perhaps such people will think that it will be said, it will also be able to complain and will also reveal the words of love, but when the face-to-to-face, they do not come all the tongue are buried within the mind. Many cases of depression are being reported in today’s era due to the feeling not revealed correctly and at the right time. The number of patients growing in the depression department of hospitals is seen testifying. Sometimes people meet, who tell that one of my kin or relative passed away... He had ‘great affection... From them I wanted to say a lot... His shoulders climbed up and played in his childhood... sat in their plate with them and ate food. But someday ‘we grew up quarrelling in people about a small thing like big and we people went away. Now I have become too middle And he passed away. I wish they would open all the heart’s words to me once they met, but now it is not possible. As long as there were, said no, now want to say so they are no. Ironically, such people themselves do not take the time by taking the initiative and later just keep on regretting. Instead of pressing the feeling in the mind, we reveal it to someone without ego in time and in the right way, is it not possible ? If so then we should, because it is good. This will enable us to breathe open air instead of fighting our minds, living in knees and depression, to be happy. Seeing emotions while assessing situations with discretion. Surely it will enhance positivity and finally prove to be good in some way for him. Will overcome the boredom of good or bad. Even though, something from anyone has become unbearable, the need to see if he was something that caused lasting loss to other’s dignity and life! If not, the world should also make life more comfortable with the sense of being
Vijay Garg Retired Principal Educational columnist Eminent Educationist street kour Chand MHR Malout Punjab
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