Harkirat Kaur
Every stage of life has its own significance. But the most precious journey of life is childhood. In which there is no worry, anxiety, fear. There is no grudge against anyone. There are not many desires. Even a single rupee given by someone would give such happiness which would have no limit. Childhood is so sweet. But if you look, childhood is also a cornerstone. Childhood is also the basis of life. From the moment a child regains consciousness, he begins to accept the influence of those around him. Every incident that happens around him has a very strong effect on him. I often think that many very young children are abusive, there is no limit to my surprise when parents stop their children. Instead, it is shown with a smile. The child has no sense of right or wrong, the laughter of the parents signals to his mind that perhaps what he is doing is right.
There is no doubt that cursing or other such activities are learned from home. Childhood is a reality, as the thinking will be in childhood, the personality of the child in the future will be the result of that. Before giving birth to a child, parents should consider whether they are capable of making a child a good human being, whether they are capable of raising their child in such a way that they will give a responsible citizen to the society in the future. Childhood demands a lot of attention. I have often heard parents grieve over the loss of their children saying that we have not allowed any shortcoming in the upbringing of our child, but we are still being treated like this. My answer is that good food and comfort are not the only signs of proper upbringing! Explain to the child the difference between right and wrong, keep the home environment meaningful, spend time with the child, monitor his every move, rebuke the mistake and stand up for him when it is right, to make the child responsible for doing his own thing. Motivating, teaching women to respect are very small things that are worth paying attention to. But there are very few parents who understand this, because parents are so busy in their lives that they do not even have time to spend with their children.
Childhood is like a very small plant, which needs timely fertilization and watering in the beginning. If the child gets proper attention, meaningful environment, good manners, support then the society gets a responsible citizen in future. A new trend that is being seen in today's parents and children is that children are getting addicted to mobile phones. Mothers, in particular, do not have to give time to the child, they leave the child with the help of mobile phones, which has a very bad effect on the mental, intellectual and physical development of the child.
Childhood is a precious feeling and journey of life, it can be lived without materials or facilities, but not without affection and rituals because childhood demands attention. |
