| The more you grow, the more you throw | | |
Diksha Dogra
When we come in this world, all we need is one person – who can take care of us, who can support us, who can love us unconditionally and that is our Mother. When she gives birth to a child, she brings one more life on the earth and we being a kid rely on our mother for every single thing. Being an infant, we need our mother so that she can feed us, change our diapers and clothes. At the age of 1-2, we need her so that she can teach us how to sit, how to stand. We expect her to understand our emotions, our pain, and our needs. When we grow and learn few things like how to eat, how to talk, how to walk we start becoming independent. When we grow more, we meet people in schools, colleges, parties and we become more independent. And here is a twist, when we get one special friend we forget everything. When we get married, we leave our parents. We leave them on roads, parks, old ages either to spend our life peacefully or just for property.
The reason why I titled this article as - The more you grow, the more you the throw is growing up as a child I realized that we develop a habit of throwing things when they no longer serve us or suit us. At a very young age, we like to throw our food, clothes, bottles, books, pens etc…When we grow we start throwing our problems on others, our relations on others and at a certain point our parents on roads. Throwing pen is fine, throwing bottle is fine, throwing cloth is also fine but when it comes to throwing parents, it’s not fine. NOT AT ALL FINE. I really get surprised when I see or hear that someone has left their parents on roads, parks and old ages. I mean how can you???? I really don’t know from where people get so many guts to do this, that too just because they think now they will have peaceful life or enough property. One question always comes in my mind – Is this really easy to leave your parents? I mean I can’t leave my parents. I can’t even think about that. How can we forget all the sacrifices which our parents especially our mother has made- first to bring us in this world, then to give us everything for our survival. We don’t know what they have been through to get every single thing we asked for. We literally have no idea how growing up as a kid, we hurt our parents but they never leave us. They can never even think of this. Then how can we leave them on roads when they need us. Why we get disappeared when they need our support. When they can love us unconditionally, then why we can’t offer them the same love. The problem is we need our freedom. We need no interference. Consider a moment when you will become parents and your kids will leave you on roads or in any unknown place. How will you feel? Will you miss your kids? Definitely yes, that’s what unconditional love is. The moment you will feel this pain and love is the moment you will realize what you have done with your parents but unfortunately, you will not be able to do anything at that time. You are not leaving your parents, you are killing your parents every single day in fact every single minute and that’s the most painful thing. Parent’s need our love and time and I think it will not gonna cost us anything. They are happy when we are happy. They are not here to snatch anything from us. They are the one who brings us in this world to give unconditional love. They first give you your life but then they try to give you their life. To understand their love, raise your children yourself. So stop throwing your parents out. Your life would have been nothing without their incredible love and support. Respect them because you are not a cloth or bottle for them. You mean life to your parents. You are truly blessed if your parents are still with you because they are the real hero’s. Love them, respect them and treat them well. |
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